Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Product Review: The Ebonnet by EboniCurls

When Ray Charles sang, “You know the nighttime (night and day) is the right time (night and day) to be (night and day) with the one you love” I am sure that he didn’t have The Huxtables… or my Double Lined Charmeuse Satin Bonnet by EboniCurls in mind. But, what I love right now (almost as much as I loved The Cosby’s in the 80’s) is how this bonnet has changed my Curly-life.
My nighttime hair regimen is as integral to the health of my hair as my daytime no-pooing, conditioning, detangling, hennaing, so my hair can grow regimen. However finding something to protect my hair from my curly-drying cotton sheets hasn’t been easy…
(Re)Introducing… The Scarf The scarf I depended upon to protect my hair always had a way of slipping, sliding, and disappearing in my sheets in the night which led to an all night cat and mouse game of Slide-And-Go-Get-It. No bueno.
Presenting… The Satin Pillowcase I purchased satin pillowcases as a remedy to the runaway scarf however my head (and thus my curls) inevitably ended up on the cotton fitted sheet by morning. Boooooo!
Maybe You Should Try… A Full Satin Sheet Set Ummmmm… NO! Move along!
What About A Satin Bonnet… I searched high and low for a satin bonnet that felt soft to the touch like true (ball gown, wedding dress, REAL) satin. What I found were “satin” bonnets that weirded me out with their cotton elastic bands and outlandish claims that they were infused with a magic potion that would make my hair grow… Seriously… Com’on Son!
What About A REAL Satin Bonnet… During one of my random YouTube sessions (you know those sessions when you watch one video, then click the next suggested video, and the next, and the next, until you can’t remember what you were looking for in the first place?), I stumbled upon a video posted by MahoganyCurls. In her hand she held a bonnet that was made by EboniCurls… The bonnet was hot (as in HAUTE) pink, large, and absolutely adorable... (insert light bulb here). I had to have one…
I looked for EboniCurls and found the Etsy store where she exclusively sells her bonnets (which she has coined “Ebonetts”)… EUREKA! Well, almost Eureka! The store was completely sold out. Looking through the sold items in the store I salivated much like a small child looking at a doggie in the window… I was so close, yet so far. And I wanted one… BAD! I Etsy-mailed EboniCurls and asked her how I could get my hands on an Ebonnet. Her response was something along the lines of: I restocked my store on the 1st and they’ve sold out once again. I am currently working to fulfill orders placed on the 1st and I will be restocking my store on the 1st of next month.
I looked at the calendar to see what the date was and to my surprise it was only the 2nd of the month… (What?!) Now I really had to have one of these bonnets. I started following EboniCurls on Facebook and Twitter so I remained in the loop. As soon as I saw that the store was restocked on the 1st I went straight for the design I had stalked the entire month before (Peacock Dreams) when I encountered a problem… A NEW DESIGN that I hadn't noticed before??? What to do? Ebonnets were selling out left and right… My indecisiveness was going to cost my curls another month of CSID (Cotton Sheet Induced Dryness). I finally pulled the trigger and went for the new design (Tail Feather Nights).
Approximately three weeks after placing my order a package arrived in the mail and inside was my Ebonnet accompanied by a hand written note to boot (I Abso-freakin-lutely LOVED the personal touch… AND she lives in the BAY… Should have known!)
That night I donned my Ebonnet and off to dreamland I went. When I awoke the next morning I realized that my days of playing Slide-And-Go-Get-It with my slip-and-slide scarf were over. The imbedded drawstring and elastic did a magnificent job of keeping my Ebonnet right where I had left it… on top of my head. When I removed the Ebonnet and began unbraiding my hair for my braid-out, I immediately noticed that my hair was softer than usual. The moisture from the conditioner I applied the evening before hadn’t gone running about my sheets in the night, rather it remained where it should be… in my curls. The Ebonnet was well worth its cost ($45 for the doubled lined style). I was hooked, line and sinker.
The Ebonnet is softer and thicker than any satin bonnet I’ve ever felt in the beauty supply store varieties. I recently asked EboniCurls why she began making her bonnets and she replied, the bonnets sold in most beauty supply stores, Sally's, Walmart, or Target are marketed as satin but the material is mostly in the nylon family.” While nylon is probably much better than cotton when it comes to protecting our curls, it’s far from the best alternative. EboniCurls’ motives were personal, she mentioned that her curls “could never retain moisture, and [her] hair strands would stick through the holes and cause breakage.” And I don’t know a Curly in the world who doesn’t want to protect from moisture loss and breakage.
So, how was the EboniCurls store born? Initially, Ebonicurls made bonnets for people who contacted her after watching a DIY tutorial she had posted on YouTube. After making that HAUTE pink beauty for vlogger Mahogany Curls, EboniCurls began to give serious thought to opening a retail site. In May of 2012 EboniCurls took her Etsy store live and her Charmeuse Satin Ebonnets have been flying off the virtual-shelf ever since.
One might think that the creator of this enterprise would go to sleep wearing a different Ebonnet every night (perhaps I am projecting here). However, when I asked EboniCurls how many Ebonnets she had in her personal collection she surprised me by replying, “Honestly, I do not have an Ebonnet at this time. I've made three for myself in the past but each time someone will ask me for the one I’m wearing and I will give it away”. EboniCurls does have plans to right this selfless wrong in the near future as she is working on a one-of-a-kind Ebonnet for herself. “I've saved a piece of material from every Ebonnet I’ve made. I am in the process of sewing each piece together so when I’m done, I am going to have an Ebonnet collage of Retro, Damask, Peacock, Kitty, Eco, Paisley, Floral, Bubble Gum, Tail Feather, Zebra, etc.” I am sure there are quite a few of EboniCurls’ fans who hope that replicas of her E(Cou)ture Ebonnet makes it to the sales floor in the future. All in all the success EboniCurls has experienced in the past 5 months has not fallen upon her unnoticed: “It makes me feel honored and proud that someone wants something that I’ve made. God has truly blessed me this year.”
Well, I am PERSONALLY glad that EboniCurls’ blessing has been played forward in spades because my curls are happier than they’ve ever been since I purchased my Ebonnet. And as an added bonus, I am much more fashionable in bed these days (despite the popular belief of my male co-workers who suggested that I only wear “that thing” in bed... ALONE... Note to self, no more opening personal mail at work).
Now… You might be wondering how you can score a hand-made-to-order Ebonnet of your very own… Check the calendar... What is the date today??? EboniCurls will be stocking her Etsy store on November 1st… She keeps the exact stocking time a mystery so get your computers fired up, log on to her Etsy store here, place your mouse on the refresh button, and snag an Ebonnet before they are all gone… And if history is any indication… they will be… and FAST! Good Luck!
What do you use to protect your curls at night?
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Friday, October 19, 2012

Product Junkie… I Know You Are But What Am I?

Product Junkie |ˈprädəkt ˈjəNGkē| n. a person with an obsessive compulsive habit of trying and collecting new hair products.

As the daughter of a bona fide Product Junkie I cannot help but worry if my aimless perusing of the beauty isle, adding more and more items to my “must try” list, and ever growing shopping cart containing natural hair products at Amazon are signs that I am headed for trouble.
This year, I made a conscious effort to boost the health of my natural hair. In my quest for a longer, thicker, and healthier mane, I boosted my research efforts and created my blog to share my experiences. The blog also serves as my accountability partner (thank you Iyanla for that phrasing) in this journey. What I didn’t anticipate was that I would spend my days and nights thinking of what I could buy, try, or apply to enhance my results.
FACT: Achieving a healthy head of hair takes work. While this comes as no surprise, this fact is oftentimes ignored on a day-to-day basis. The harsh reality of this fact is sometimes only realized when what hair we have grown is left on the cutting room floor after a visit to our stylist for what we thought would be a simple “trim.” Arming yourself with an arsenal of products and processes that will leave more hair on your head and less hair on the floor is a key component in this mission.
My hair care regimen that once consisted of A shampoo, A conditioner, and A styling product has grown to include an arsenal of conditioners, various oils, multiple essential oils, a hand mixer, a stash of BAQ (what the hay is that?!) henna, and a number of items that do double duty between my kitchen and my bathroom (no I do not take these items from the kitchen into the bathroom and back again… Ewe!)
While my shopping list has grown, I am pleased to report that my hair has too (probably not as much as my shopping list… But we’re building a foundation here). Here’s a list of what I’m currently buying and where I am buying it from:
On The Web…
Unrefined Shea Butter
Body Art Quality (BAQ) Henna – available online at www.mehandi.com   
At Trader Joe's...
Aloe Vera Juice
Extra Virgin Olive Oil
Extra Virgin Coconut Oil
Grapeseed Oil
Vitamin E Oil
Jojoba Oil
Whole Foods (aka “Whole Paycheck” hence why these items read “or online”)…
Argan Oil – available at Whole Foods or online
Peppermint Essential Oil – available at Whole Foods or online
Rosemary Essential Oil – available at Whole Foods or online
Lavender Essential Oil – available at Whole Foods or online
Target…
Shea Moisture Organic Raw Shea Butter Reconstructive Elixir – available at Target and many drug stores
TRESemme Naturals  Nourishing Moisture Conditioner – available at Target and most drug stores
Herbal Essences Hello Hydration – available at Target and most drug stores
Glad Cling Wrap – available at Target and most grocery stores
Sally’s (or any other local beauty supply)…
-          Processing Caps
-          Reusable Latex Gloves
Unless you have an unlimited product budget (or a Sugar Daddy hanging in the wings) I would recommend that you build your product arsenal over time. Starting with the items you will use most then moving on to products that can serve multiple purposes, and lastly on to those “just for kicks” novelty items will ensure that you are keeping your inner product junkie in check.
When was your last Product Junkie moment and was the product “the bomb” or "a bust"?
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Friday, October 12, 2012

How Do I Love ACV? Let Me Count The Ways...

Throughout the years Apple Cider Vinegar (ACV) has been touted for a multitude of uses such as a digestive aide, weight loss enabler, silver cleanser, and salad dressing component. My first experience with shots (shots shots shots shots SHOTS SHOTS, EVERYBODY! – LMFAO voice) came at a very young age when my Aunt Gladys would offer up a shot of vinegar as a preventative measure after I consumed fish just in case I happened to have swallowed a bone while I was throwing down. While I am no longer a toddler at risk of asphyxiation by hidden fish bone I have recently found another way for this miracle potion to save my life... One curl at a time.
The Apple Cider Vinegar Rinse has on more than one occasion resurrected my lackluster tresses. Whenever shrinkage is at an all time high, shine at a depressing low, frizz is running rampant, and God forbid I forget to wrap my hair at night (insert shriek here) ACV is my saving grace (queue Christina’s "I Turn To You"). The mix is a simple one and the process takes only as long as it takes one to pour out the contents of a bottle.
The Mix:
Step #1:  GRAB an empty (and clean) 10-16 oz sized water bottle.
Step #2: FILL the bottle half way with Apple Cider Vinegar.
Step #3: FILL the rest of the bottle with filtered water.
Step #4: APPLY after rinsing out conditioner and before applying styling product. If you follow The Becky the ACV Rinse would be applied in between Steps 4 and 5. I usually apply my ACV Rinse in the shower and I do not rinse it out. I store both my ACV and filtered water in the refrigerator so this rinse is pretty cold but it does a stellar job sealing up the hair cuticle.
Side bar… Be VERY careful not to get the ACV Rinse in your eyes. I speak from experience when I say it stings like the Dickens if you do. Remember Daryl Hannah's trailer scene in Kill Bill (the one where her second eye gets pecked out of the socket by a vengeful Uma Thurman)? Yes, I was screaming and flailing about my shower something like that. The pain and horror did pass once I realized that Quentin Tarantino was not behind a camera in my bathroom and I was not going to be nominated for an Oscar for my performance. Upon realizing that I was not dying, I took a breath and was fine after a few seconds of rinsing my face in the shower stream. Nowadays, I take every precaution (close eyes tightly, pour rinse with my head leaning back instead of forward, and rinse my face frequently) to ensure that the ACV doesn’t wander into my eyes.
Step #5: STYLE as usual. You should instantly notice smoother curls, less shrinkage, killer shine, and definition that would impress the curliest of Curly-Idols.
I typically do an ACV Rinse only when my curls are feeling unusually drab and frizzy and when a good old sulfate-free shampoo does nothing to bring them back into alignment (which at this stage in the game is about once every other month). ACV has cleansing qualities so I do my rinses in between wash days so I don’t overly strip my hair of needed moisture and my natural oils.
What is your go to process when you need to resurrect lackluster tresses?

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Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Here Come The Curls… Wedding Day Hair Edition


Weddings are joyous occasions that bring with them their fair amount of anxiety. Achieving the perfect “Wedding Day Hair” is up there with finding the perfect dresses, securing a venue, finalizing the guest list, and choosing those all important dance songs. 
I had the esteemed pleasure of serving as a bridesmaid in one of my best (and longest) friend’s weddings this past weekend. Wedding Day Hair Anxiety (WDHA) set in almost immediately. Would I straighten my hair for the big day? If so, would my curl pattern be forever changed and I be left with permanently straightened (and scorched) strands? If I wore my hair curly would my curls cooperate under the pressure of such a special occasion? I know I wrote that I have stopped trying to control my curls in They're Gonna Do What They're Gonna Do, Baby but on this day, I really, really, REALLY needed them to behave (and obey).
I feel my hair looks its absolute best on Day 3 so, I pre-pooed on Wednesday night to maximize the moisture and shine in my tresses. On Thursday I shampooed my hair with a sulfate-free shampoo, double strand-twisted with a leave-in conditioner and homemade flaxseed gel, then let my hair air-dry overnight. 
On Friday I released the twists and rocked a twist-out while running last minute errands (aren't there ALWAYS last minute errands?). I was so pleased with the results I achieved with my twist-out that I did a little twist-out touch-up for the rehearsal dinner by water-spritzing, applying a touch of flaxseed gel, and re-twisting some of the sections that had succumbed to frizz throughout the day. I released the touch-up twists right before walking into the rehearsal dinner. Friday night I water-spritzed, sectioned, detangled, braided and wrapped my hair with a satin scarf to maximize moisture and minimize shrinkage. Saturday morning I released the braids, did my usual wash-and-go (aka “The Becky”) and prayed that the Curly Gods would be on my side… 
And my prayers were answered! Once dressed I gently fluffed my hair right before walking  down the isle.
The wedding (held at the Cathedral of Light in Oakland, CA) was absolutely beautiful. Curly Divas showed up (and showed out) in marvelous ways.
Robyn, the Maid of Honor, said she loves her curls most on Day 2. She wore a pinned up wash-and-go with side bangs. 
Margaret (alllll the way from Lafayette, LA) rocked a beautiful salt and pepper afro.
Cometria’s side-pinned braid-out was marked by classical sophistication.
All in all the wedding, and its curly accompaniments, embodied the fun-heartedness and beauty of our bride who frequently rocks curls but opted for a sleek side bun adorned with a fresh cut orchid for her special day.
Congratulations Risha & William!

How do you ensure your curls are picture perfect for special occasions?


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